As you know, there are hundreds of people around the world who mourn the
loss of Ann. They never met her but grew to love her through her words
online.
Here's the history you requested. Brian and I came up with the idea of
International FAS Awareness Day in January, 1999, when we realized that
all
of the 9's were going to come together at 9:09 a.m. on the ninth day of
the
ninth month of '99. We thought it would be a good idea to try doing an
International FAS Awareness Day on that date. There had been a big
blizzard
in Toronto, Canada, where we live, and we came up with this idea while
digging out our cars, which were covered with two metres of snow!.
I then phoned Teresa Kellerman in Tucson, AZ, USA, to see what she thought
and she loved the idea and said she could pull together a listserv and
do a
website, and I sent out the idea online, asking for volunteers. Teresa felt
we needed a name for this international alliance and the word,
"FASworld"
just popped out of my mouth.
One of the first people who volunteered was Ann Gibson. We heard from
her
within hours! She picked up the
ball and ran with it, not just in Germany
but in making contacts across continental Europe. On the first FAS Day, Ann
spearheaded events in THREE German cities, with the help of her
daughters
and other friends! She rounded
up the best medical experts, had bells
ringing, and encouraged the rest of us.
I think there are archives on the
FAS Day website that you can access that can tell you more.
It was an incredible experience to meet Ann in Grand Rapids three months
after FAS Day. I remember sitting across from her and Alan at a long
dinner
table with a number of others who had participated in FAS Day. (We now
call
it FASDay.) Ann and Alan were telling us about how much they loved
Germany
and how they could never leave because they would have to leave their
beloved foster children behind, as adoption of foster children was not
allowed in Germany. Alan and Ann
were so in tune with each other, almost
like a pair of teenagers in love -- enthusiastic, funny, bubbly.
I remember thinking to myself that this beautiful woman who was so
brilliant, organized, creative and compassionate still managed to find
the
time to have the exactly perfect scarf with her chic outfit, tied
exactly
perfectly!
Ann certainly took on a huge job within 24 hours of Brian, Teresa and me
coming up with the idea. Basically, she took on the continent of
Europe!!!
She was brilliant and creative. None of us was in this to take credit or
make money or get famous. All we
wanted to do was prevent more FASD births
and help those children and adults who had been born affected. Ann was
always a totally selfless person.
Thanks for caring so much about our "Anni."
Much love,
Bonnie